Working with Couples

Every relationship has its rhythms—the sweet moments of ease and connection, and the times when it feels harder to meet each other with understanding. For many couples, talking about touch, intimacy, and pleasure can be one of those tender edges. It’s easy to fall into old patterns, to stay silent, or to feel like your needs don’t quite line up.

That’s where this work comes in.

When we meet together, I’ll guide you and your partner through gentle, playful, and sometimes eye-opening exercises designed to help you:

  • Discover a shared language for asking and receiving

  • Practice saying “yes” and “no” in ways that bring you closer instead of creating distance

  • Explore what feels nourishing, exciting, or comforting in your body—and in your partner’s

  • Build trust as you learn how to navigate touch, pleasure, and boundaries with care

We’ll draw on frameworks like the Wheel of Consent, along with practices from surrogate partner therapy, to create a space where you can experiment safely, laugh together, and grow more curious about one another.

This isn’t about “fixing” your relationship or performing in a certain way. It’s about slowing down, getting curious, and remembering that intimacy can be playful, tender, and deeply healing.

What it feels like
Imagine leaving a session feeling more connected, more relaxed in your bodies, and with new tools you can take into your everyday life—whether that’s sharing affection on the couch, or exploring deeper intimacy in the bedroom.

Who it’s for
This work is for couples of all genders and orientations who want to:

  • Rekindle spark and passion

  • Feel more at ease talking about intimacy

  • Learn how to honor both partners’ desires and limits

  • Strengthen the foundation of their partnership through touch and communication

If you and your partner are ready to explore, I’d love to walk with you on that journey.

Because of the unique nature of couples work, I begin with a starter package of 6 hours for $1800, which can then be extended at the same hourly rate.

This work is about giving your relationship the time and space it deserves. Real shifts happen gradually—through practice, curiosity, and gently exploring what’s beneath the surface. Committing to this initial package creates a strong foundation for that growth. I’ll be right there with you, holding space and guiding you as you learn new ways of connecting.

Your 6 hours can be used in 60–120 minute sessions, either on Zoom or in person. If I’m already in your area, in-person sessions are available at no extra cost; if travel is needed, a small fee may apply.

Think of this as an investment not just in six hours together, but in building skills and experiences you can carry forward into your relationship long after our sessions end.