WHAT TO EXPECT
Curious what working together actually looks like?
Here's the whole journey of holistic intimacy coaching, one step at a time.
1 We say hello
It starts with a free connection call. You'll get a feel for me, I'll get a feel for what brought you here, and we'll both see if we click. I show up as a whole person, so you might hear about my husband, my grown kids, or my farm-girl roots. That's on purpose. Connection goes both ways.
2 We get curious
In our first session, we talk about what you're looking for. More closeness? More confidence in your body? A better sense of your own yes and no? We'll set the pace together, and you can change your mind at any point.
3 We practice
Sessions might include conversation, consent practices, body awareness, or touch. Touch is always optional, and many sessions don't include it at all. Everything we do is non-sexual, trauma-informed, and guided by your choices.
4 Something shifts
Somewhere along the way, most clients notice something new: they feel safe. That's where closeness becomes possible. And closeness opens up everything else.
The practical stuff
WHERE
Virtually anywhere in the U.S., or in person in San Diego and across Southern California. I also visit Baltimore/DC and Pittsburgh quarterly. Hybrids also work well.
WORKING WITH A THERAPIST?
Wonderful. I often collaborate with talk therapists so you have support from both sides.
Common questions
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A holistic intimacy coach helps you build deeper connection with yourself and with others. My work is consent-based, non-sexual, trauma-informed, and rooted in the body. Together, we practice the skills that make real closeness possible, at a pace that feels right for you.
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No. All sessions are non-sexual.
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Never. Touch is one option among many, and it only happens with your clear yes.
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That makes sense. Most people are. The connection call exists so you can check things out with zero commitment.
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Lots of folks, especially singles and people in non-monogamous, kink, and asexual communities. If you're wondering whether you'd fit, you probably would.
Ready when you are.
Book a free connection call whenever it feels right.